Saturday, May 24, 2008

Big Girl Bed!!!

Dallas is now sleeping in her "Big Girl Bed"!!! She started climbing out of her crib a few months ago. Sometimes she would climb totally out and other times she would get "stuck" on top and scream for us in the middle of the night. I converted her crib to a toddler bed but that didn't work at all. She would wake up and promptly run to our room and get in bed with Mommy and Daddy!!! There were several nights where we would lay on the floor next to her until she feel asleep. By 2:00 am she would be right back in bed with us!!! Dallas has never been a great sleeper. It took us 7 months just to get her to sleep in her own crib after we got home with her. Even when she does get in bed with us she still is very restless. She gets half of a king size bed and we get the rest!!!

So "Sleeping Boot Camp" began earlier this month. I went out and bought full sized bedding for her and we converted the toddler bed to a "Big Girl Bed". Bye Bye crib!!! Yeah, Mommy didn't handle that too well. The the real fun began with night #1. I ended up sleeping in the bed with her because she would have nothing to do with her new bed. This went on for several weeks. She didn't want Daddy in the bed with her only Mommy. I was functioning on very little sleep. We finally decided to let her CIO. This was the best thing for us and we all sleep much better now. I made sure the furniture was bolted to the walls and that there was nothing she could get into. I moved the video camera to where it could scan the entire room. Finally, we put a gate in her doorway to prevent her from walking around at night. The first week was horrible. Skip would lay in the bed with her until she went to sleep and then go back to our room. When she would wake up and realize she couldn't get in bed with us, she would scream. I would watch her from the monitor in our room. She started taking everything off the bookcase by her bed and throwing it over the gate into the hallway. Then she threw the bedding into the hallway. Finally, she would climb back in her new bed and go to sleep. The next morning she would get up and clean up her mess and act as if nothing ever happened!!! It's been about a month now and Dallas is doing much better. She still doesn't like to go to bed but at least she is sleeping through the night without anymore major tantrums. If she does wake up she will cry for a while and then go back to bed. I think she got tired of cleaning up her mess so she doesn't throw stuff anymore!!! The gate will remain there until she can learn to stay in her bed without running around the house in the middle of the night. I have the monitor by the bed and can check on her at any time. Mommy and Daddy are finally getting some sleep and Dallas is actually sleeping better as well.



6 comments:

  1. Welcome to my no sleeping world. I have not had a good night sleep in 2 months. I have not stopped either. But, on a good note we are home until the 29th. So all of you need to come swim with Mary. We go back to Greenville on the 29th and go to Memphis on the 30th until June 3rd, then go back to Greenville for Alyson's recital on the 7th. We go back to Memphis on June 9th and come back home on June 12th. Then we play it by ear when we go back to Memphis. Alyson's little sister will have her bone marrow transplant on June 17th which is Alyson's Birthday. Her little sister will then be in St. Jude's for at least 100 days most likely more. So I ask you to pray for our family's as we do all these things. Love Dee

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  2. I happened upon your blog through another I often read and I just wanted to say that Dallas is beautiful! I love her name, too! I have two girls adopted from Guatemala, but Dallas' bedtime adventures sound a lot like my youngest son's (which we're still dealing with). I may have to get strong and just let him CIO, too! Stop by my blog sometime!

    Timberly
    www.dawsondaetonemmyella.blogspot.com

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  3. I could just kiss her!!!! How is my favorite patient sleeping now! I bet she is sleeping better than you guys are. Take care and keep writing

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  4. What a doll! My 3 year old took a while to adjust to his big boy bed too. We had some rough nights, but eventually he settled in.

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  5. Susie~~You have no idea how encouraging this post is to me. Esp. since my little darling has begun climbing everything in sight and I am holding my breath about when she will climb completely out of her crib!! My question is, if Dallas could climb out of her crib, why couldn't she climb over the door gate? My DD nearly has the gate to the kitchen mastered, before the crib!! Just wondering . . .
    ChrisKS

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  6. I had you blog bookmarked and this post his so close to home! We just switched to the toddler bed too, and things are not the best. Very rough start, but we are having some good nights here and there.

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